by Jeff Kaplan | Aug 9, 2019 | Blog Posts, Coaching
Is there someone in your life who often points out how you, once again, let him or her down? “You never remember to get me flowers!” “You know I don’t like salmon.” (That’s one from my own marriage.) “You should know that I don’t like when you do...
by Jeff Kaplan | Aug 9, 2019 | Blog Posts, Coaching
In the previous sections of this entry: Part 1: Stopping the argument and Part 2: Working through the differences, I introduced two concepts: 1) asking “What do you want?” can stop an argument in its tracks, and 2) conflict resolution should be a...
by Jeff Kaplan | Aug 9, 2019 | Blog Posts, Coaching
Have you ever been in a personal or work relationship where the other person resorts to “talking it out” over every little thing? Couples in relationships can do themselves a disservice by drawing attention to every disagreement or minor issue. Feelings...
by Jeff Kaplan | Aug 9, 2019 | Blog Posts, Coaching
Have you ever been in an argument? Of course you have. Have you ever wanted to stop an argument? Let’s assume yes. There’s one question you can ask that can freeze the argument right in its tracks. Before we go there, let’s first...